Baxter’s Birthday

A special day in our house as we celebrate our old friend Baxter’s 14th birthday. Seems like just yesterday, but then it wasn’t. As I reflect on our “life together”, when we picked Baxter up from the breeder our daughter Hannah was just 9 and Molly was 6 (now nearly 24 and 21). We lived in a different house, in a different town, and I was commuting into my NYC studio every day, taking pictures for magazine, advertising and catalog clients. My how our lives have changed, all in good ways.
But enough about me, today’s Baxter’s day. Baxter, “champion” Portuguese Water Dog that he is, whose name when we picked him up from the breeder was, interestingly enough, Bo Diddley (long before the President’s “Bo”), is truly our “best friend”, for the most part still with the energy of a puppy (his sister Bibi keeps him in shape), and in spite of being deaf as a doornail, continues to warm our hearts with his loyalty and good nature on a daily basis. To know Baxter is to love him and we look forward to more wonderful senior years with our old buddy and his frisky “sister”.
Below are a couple of pictures of Baxter, shot on the front steps earlier today, and one of Baxter, Bibi and their chum and ours Murphy, who unfortunately is no longer with us. Together they were truly our “three amigos”, and our lives will forever be better because of them.

Jordana and Brad’s engagement session

With the amazing weather we’ve had for the past week, it’s almost hard to remember the endless, cold, storm-filled days of this winter past. But it was in the midst of that dark and dreary February, in fact just a day before Valentine’s day, that Jordana and Brad payed me a visit for their engagement session. And troopers that they are it didn’t take much convincing to get them to go outside for a few, but very quick moments in the snow, some of which are pictured here. With their wedding now less than two weeks away I thought it was just the time to give you a glimpse of our short session together as well as to tell you the charming story of the wonderfully fun and very much in love Jordana and Brad, in her own words (all “smileys” attributed to the author):

“We both grew up in Trumbull but never went to school together because we were five years apart. I was living in Atlanta after college and he moved there for a job. We were each on “JDAte” and saw that we were both from Connecticut, so we got in touch and realized we were actually from the same town and figured we should meet up. I thought he was nice but too shy, so I didn’t pursue it again, and he took the hint, but a few months later we started “IM’ing” and met up for drinks-where I talked AT him for a couple hours and decided he is a great listener, I should date him. So we started dating at the same time that he got a transfer to the NYC office, and about 8 months after he moved I followed him back home.:)

I had already had my mom get the “dirt” on him before we went on our first date, so I spent the whole dinner pretending to randomly ask if he knew certain people from Trumbull, knowing fully well that he did, and then watching his surprised reaction as he discovered how many people we know in common;)

I mean, how can you not love these guys? I know I do, and I can’t wait until their wedding on the 17th. Stay tuned!

Jeannette and Sean’s Winter Wedding

Sometimes it can be all in the timing. Before there was the great nor’easter of last weekend that soaked New England with rain and wind, left homes without power for days and schools closed for the week, there was the equally exciting nor’easter at the end of February (how quickly we forget) that hit NYC and vicinity with record breaking snow fall. And it was in the aftermath of this great storm, starting on Thursday and lasting well into Friday, that we found ourselves heading to the City for Jeannette and Sean’s Saturday wedding extravaganza. The storm had subsided, the sun was out, the clean up had begun. Destination Brooklyn and the house where Jeannette grew up and was getting ready for her wedding day.

But first a little bit about Jeannette and Sean. They first met through mutual friends at a bar in the City and then a week later again at a Christmas party in Staten Island, where Sean grew up. As they were leaving the party (separately) and Jeannette and her friends were deciding where to go next, Jeannette declared, somewhat in jest I gather, “I don’t know where you guys are going, but I’m going wherever Sean Driscoll is going” (check out the poster on the front door of her dad’s house), not just once but several times. Funny to all at the time, but by their first real date back in 2002, back in the city at City Crab, it quickly became obvious to all their friends that following Sean Driscoll was exactly what was going to happen. First moving to Staten Island, then to Baltimore and finally back to New York just in time for their wedding day.

With the sun shining and Brooklyn covered in that beautiful white snow that never lasts for more than a day or two in the City before turning grey or melting, and somehow their friends and family all making it to both their ceremony and ultimately to their reception an hour away (that became two) in New Jersey, the day was truly a celebration of the fact that Jeannette and Sean’s life together continues to be an adventure, never without a high degree of excitement, not always within their control, but always going” wherever Sean” (and Jeannette) Driscoll choose to take it.

Congratulations to both of you, J&S. Thanks for including us in your journey.

Our trip to Italy.

Last week we had the wonderfully good fortune of vacationing in Italy, and spending some quality time with our daughter Molly, who’s studying in Florence for the semester. Never having been, everything about the trip was a visual (and gastronomic) grand adventure. Mostly in Florence, with a day’s trip to Rome and another to Lucca, staying at a great little Hotel Tornabuoini Beacci, we ate, drank, walked endlessly and saw lots of extraordinary art and architecture. If I didn’t before, I now truly have the travel bug in me, and can’t wait to go back. What follows is a little sampling of our travels, which I hope you’ll enjoy.

Getting to know Kristina and Jason

We call them engagement sessions, or “e” sessions for short. But really, more than anything, they’re “get to know you” photo shoots. An opportunity for me to spend an hour or two (or sometimes a day) with our soon to be bride and groom, for me to see how they are on their end of the camera and for them to get a glimpse of my style and approach. I’ve really found that it contributes greatly to the more relaxed and casual relationship that I’ve established with the couple by their wedding day. Add to this the fact that we somehow manage to always come away with some wonderful pictures of the two of them, photos that can really capture a side of them and their story that they otherwise might not have a permanent record of, kind of a “day in the life of”.

On this Wednesday of blizzard conditions here in Connecticut, it’s hard to imagine that just this past Friday, with barely any snow on the ground and with just a touch of Spring in the air, I met Kristina and Jason in the historic little Bedford Village, New York and spent a couple of ours on their “e” photos. In their case, it was considerably more than a get to know you session, it was a “get to meet you” opportunity. You see, K&J live in Virginia (ok, talk about some “snow”!) and in between storms they managed to make it up this way to visit family and to meet for our shoot. And since Kristina spent much of her youth in Bedford, and since they’re getting married at one of the churches in the Village, it just seemed like a logical place to meet and use as a backdrop for our pictures.

Now I suppose sometimes this could be an awkward thing, meeting a couple for the first time and then immediately jumping into this photo session. But not for Kristina and Jason, and definitely not for me. Not only were they instantly relaxed in front of the camera and willing to try everything I threw at them, it took only minutes before I felt as if I’d known them forever. The sweetest couple, whose wedding in August will be nothing but a day of extraordinary fun for me to capture.

By the way, included in the collection of photographs from our day together are some great moments captured in the Bedford Village Library, truly a relic from the past but as quiet, peaceful, well-used and significant a spot as when Kristina used to hang there as a kid.

I hope you’ll enjoy the results of our efforts and continue to follow the story of Kristina and Jason this summer.